boymom2007
Day 4 pre-op
Apr 07, 2014
I'm so glad I found this community! I've been researching bariatric surgery for almost 4 years, have almost gone through with it twice, and now I'm finally making the commitment! I'm so excited for myself, and my little family. I've battled depression and anxiety for so long and the extra weight definitely doesn't help. I deserve to be able to play outside with my husband and kids, and they deserve a wife and mother who takes care of herself.
I'm writing all this down so that I can come back and read how I was feeling at this time, I don't want to forget the place where I was on this day. I voluntarily began seeing a therapist in January 2014. If you are debating seeking mental health help, don't hesitate! My therapist has been a tremendous support, and is part of the reason I've decided I'm ready for surgery! I know that my issues go way deeper than just physical, and admitting that has made a world of difference in my attitude!
I am self pay, which for me makes it even more of an incentive to succeed! Writing out that huge check felt great because I am now investing in myself, where I never had before. I can see now that guilt about spending money or time on me, instead of my kids, was damaging for all of us! If I don't put the time and money into caring for myself, then I won't be able to care for my family...see, it's a win-win for everyone!
Day 4 pre-op: I have a headache, and am feeling pretty lethargic. I had lots of energy yesterday, however, today is Monday so maybe it's just mental! :) I am using the Body By Vi system, protein shakes, only because I've used them in the past and they are DELICIOUS!! I've been using Almond Milk, and mix in banana, spinach, and sugar free jello mix to change up the flavor. I have soup on my grocery list today, I think I'm craving something warm... So far, I've not been hungry at all. I hope, and pray, that that continues this week! :) I'm on a strict, liquid only 2 week diet. My doctor's office and staff are extremely organized and detailed. I know exactly what to eat, and what to expect at each stage.
What are your suggestions for packing a hospital bag? I will be staying at least one, maybe two nights.
What did you have on hand when you got home after hospital? Food, magazines...???
What was your pain/activity level in the days after surgery?
