Surgery is tomorrow and things are little off...

Jul 06, 2011

Here I am the day before surgery, the day I've been waiting for for 5 years. I drank the mag cit yesterday, tasted gross but I'm cleaned out! I've been doing my liquid diet, not too bad either. This morning my surgeon calls to tell me that she fell and hurt  her arm yesterday and since I'm prepped she doesn't want to delay me and asked if the other surgeon can perform the surgery, fine. I did a lil research on him and a couple things came up about his bedside manner and he's arrogant. I think I can deal with that since I'll be knocked out and don't really have to deal with him per say. My surgeon will be in the OR so that makes me feel better.

I've had my surgery date for about 3 weeks and just like my BF he waits until the last minute, literally like an hour ago, to tell his boss that he's taking me to the hospital in the morning for surgery by 7. This a-hole (the boss) doesn't even skip a beat and says the bf has some work to do and needs to be there by 8 or earlier if possible. Ok so I will literally be dropped off on the curb to start this journey ALONE. This shouldn't really surprise me. Then to top that off, the BF was asked to teach a class on Saturday morning in which I should be getting discharged, I just don't know when so get to hang out at the curbside waiting for my ride.

I'm not nervous about tomorrow, not yet anyway. I'm just irritated that the BF wasn't more responsible about making arrangements to be there with me for a little while and the fact that he agreed to teach this class and completely forgot that I was coming home that day.  I don't have anyone else I can depend on for any of this and I'm not sure why I decided to depend on him. I'm so disappointed. Funny though, I could have had my surgery done yesterday and the BF actually played hooky! SOB!!!

I thought 7/7/11 would be a great day for surgery. Now I pray that the surgery goes ok and it's everything around me can go to sh!t.  Ya know!?!?!?  Ridiculous...anyone else share a similar experience?

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