No Answer Needed....

Jul 03, 2014

I posted this on my facebook page this morning: "In the last 6 months I have lost a considerable amount of weight. Equivalent to an average sized ten year old boy. What I have gained is insight and a helluva a workout ethic, and attention to healthy food. What I have NOT gained is confidence. I already had that in truckloads. So, please stop asking me if I have finally "gained confidence". I know you mean well, but....'nuff said! Thanks!"

Even when the question is asked with love, I think ---wow! this person doesn't really know me at all! even when the person has known me for ages---- and believe me, I get the weight/overweight/confidence conundrum. I DO! I believe that they are twisted in a cunning coil, twisted and intertwined and twinning all embroiled. But I separated that all out a long time ago. I try to be gentle STILL when the question is asked of me but come ON! I don't find out someone has put on ten pounds and ask if their confidence is in the dumps. 

anyhow.....onward and upward. A very active weekend planned, stay tuned!

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