Marti2048
My name is Martha. I am way over 21!! Happily married for almost 4 years to my soulmate, Larry. I have two children Michael (27) and Carol (39). I have five grandchildren, the oldest is 22 and the youngest is 7. I work for the government and have been doing so for almost 25 years. I love pets. I have 7 cats and 1 dog. I love to read and paint ceramics, when I can. (There are no ceramic studios in Richmond, VA.) I was born in Bridgeport, CT and lived there for 50 years. I have lived in Richmond, VA for the past 8 years.
My weight problem started when I was in 7th grade and has continued till now. I have dieted so many times and gained all of the weight back plus more just as many times. I have tried prescription diet pills, non perscription diet pills, weight watchers, hypnotism and plain old going hungry. I have joined many exercise programs but have gotten discouraged and quit!
I have been thinking about WLS for about the past three years. I finally made a call and attended a seminar and was hooked. I spoke with the nurse at the surgeons office and gave her all of my history. I have high blood pressure, GERD, depression and anxiety. Of course I have a poor self image and am full of self loathing. There is diabetes and heart disease in my family. I feel if I don't do something drastic, that is my future also. I fit in the weight and BMI guidelines, so I am a good candidate for surgery. I'm waiting to hear from my insurance company. I am not patient!! I don't like waiting!!
I have been reading and researching everything I posssible can on this subject. I am willing to do whatever I have to to lose this weight. I am scared, anxious, hopeful, nervous - an abundance of emotions, too many to mention. I know I am on a journey to a healthier and happier life.
I'm looking for support,(although my husband is wonderful) and friends and of course all of the information I can get.