klee
This year, I finally decided to make changes with my life. Changes that I needed for me, changes that would bring me to a healthier and ultimately happier life.
My first step was to separate from my husanad of 15 years....a man that was my best friend, lover, and the person I thought I would spend the rest of my life with....ultimately, I do still love him, but realized that his challenges, that he refused to deal with were hurting my daughter and I. Luckily we have managed to salvage a friendship, although trying at times, it has definitely helped us both through this transition.
My second step was talking to my doctor about my health and proactively discussing my desire to have wls. My doctor was brutally honest with his comments.....if I kept going the way I was, I would be dead within 5 years....so I guess my desires to have surgery came at a good time...he sent me to a surgeon here in Toronto and I am now scheduled for lap rny on April 19, 2007.
My third step was to be more pro-active with my career...hopefully I will hear something in the next week or so on some changes here.
Then it will be surgery and my jump into the life I know I was meant to have.....heres to me....
