How far in advance did you tell people?
I know some people do not share with anyone outside of their very inner circle that they've had the surgery but I plan on telling everyone (I'm good at keeping others secrets but not my own!) Of course my spouse and child know as do my parents and in-laws. My question comes because I have friends who I know are not going to be overly supportive. I mean, they're good friends and they'll support me because of that but I know their views on WLS and they are "against it." Need I say these are all thin friends? I was thinking of waiting until right before surgery but then does that make it look like I'm ashamed of it?
Any thoughts/experiences you have on the topic are much appreciated. Thank you.
Do you need to tell them at all?
VSG with Dr. Salameh - 3/13/2014
Diagnosed with Binge Eating Disorder and started Vyvanse - 7/22/2016
Reconstructive Surgeries with Dr. Michaels - 6/5/2017 (LBL & brachioplasty), 8/14/2017 (UBL & mastopexy), 11/6/2017 (medial leg lift)
Age 42 Height 5'4" HW 319 (1/3/2014) SW 293 (3/13/2014) CW 149 (7/16/2017)
Next Goal 145 - normal BMI | Total Weight Lost 170
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I would tell them as close as possible to the date of your surgery, just in case something happens at the last minute.
But I am in the need-to-know only category, so I didn't tell even all the people on your "of course" list. :)
VSG on 1/28/14
M1 -24 lbs M2 -11 M3 -14 M4 -6 lb(total loss: 55)
HW: 297 SW: 279 CW: 224