Where is Nik?
She posted awhile ago that she is really busy with the divas (apparently diva the elder was on FB and Nik hadn't sanctioned it) and BF. Also if I remember correctly the one year anniversary of her mom's death is coming up. I bet this is a tough time for her.
I fight badgers with spoons.
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 800-273-8255
Suicidepreventionlifeline.org
She has been very busy, but also for lent she is giving up "social media." I'm not sure if that just means Facebook or if it means OH, too. She's still posting on her blog and she's posting on Facebook for Bariatric Foodie because she needs to for business reasons, but she's not posting anything personal on Facebook.
She is available by email, though, if you need her.
Please note: I AM NOT A DOCTOR. If you want medical advice, talk to your doctor. Whatever I post, there is probably some surgeon or other health care provider somewhere that disagrees with me. If you want to know what your surgeon thinks, then ask him or her. Check out my blog.