Need opinions...Have I given dieting a fair shot?
My loved one thinks I've never given dieting a true chance and fears that I will fail at the wls just as I have every diet. I think if I have the extra help to lose the weight I may be able to succeed because I'll have put all this work into the weight loss and will see dramatic results and not want to go back to the way I was. Plus, I've seen, on this site, that I would probably get sick if I eat stuff that's not good for me. I think that would help me. I need something that will make me seriously think twice before I eat something.
Thoughts, feelings, opinions, experiences, please
If you do not fully utilise this opportunity, it is possible to fail. The surgery is not a get out of dieting free card - you will forever have to be responsible for what goes into your mouth. Hopefully you will take your decision seriously, lose all your weight and change your lifestyle - FOR LIFE!
Eat a protein first diet
Exercise regularly
Never drink with meals or for 30 minutes after
Take your vitamins
Have labs done to check your vitamin/mineral levels
If you are unable to do the above for the rest of your life, then WLS may not be for you - if you feel you are able to make this commitment for your health, then come join us!
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I think WLS is a great tool and it does help many people. Only about 5% of people that lose large amounts of weight by dieting are actually able to keep it off, so changes are, you would just continue to gain weight back if you lose weight by dieting again. Diets don't work for most people. Numerous studies have shown that. So if you've tried diets in the past and they didn't work for you, you're normal.
I just think it's important to have realistic expectations for what RNY will and will not do for you. It WILL help you eat smaller portions because your pouch won't hold a lot. It probably will NOT force you to make good food choices, though. You'll have to do that yourself.
Please note: I AM NOT A DOCTOR. If you want medical advice, talk to your doctor. Whatever I post, there is probably some surgeon or other health care provider somewhere that disagrees with me. If you want to know what your surgeon thinks, then ask him or her. Check out my blog.
Only 30% of people dump, which means that most people do NOT get sick if they make a bad food choice, so you shouldn't count on surgery forcing you to make good food choices.
Your chances at losing the weight and keeping it off are significantly higher if you have weight loss surgery than if you don't, but you have to be willing to make permanent changes and have to understand that it is not magic (and if just not wanting to go back to the way you were before you lost the weight does not translate into behavioral changes as far as food choices and physical activity, there is no guarantee that you will not gain much of the weight back).
I wouldn't spend much time there, but it might help to just take a quick glance through some of the posts on the revision forum to see that people DO regain after RNY (and frequently look to another surgery to help them again).
lora
14 years out; 190 pounds lost, 165 pound loss maintained
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yes, we can get sick still from certain foods...but for me sometings I could eat a bunch of and not get sick. Don't count on WLS to MAKE you lose weight. Because trust me, this will be the hardest lifelong diet you have ever been on. It takes work. All that being said, you can do it!! I am a big emotional eater and had to get lots of support from counselors, psychiatrists, nutritionists. But if I can do it,you can too!
I have learned it all about moderation and staying away from my trigger foods. Which for me is popcorn and chips. I love the salty crunchy things.
So substitution has been my goal. When i crave popcorn I get sunflower seeds and/or almonds. Even cashews sometimes for variety.
When I crave chips I make zucchini chips in my dehydrater or else I make some flax meal crackers. There are quite a few cracker recipes available online made out of things like almond meal, flax, coconut flour, etc.
When I want cake I make a muffin in a minute. I can make them any flavor I can dream of. My favorite is a lemon blueberry cake.
If I'm craving candy I will eat a few pieces of the sugar free candy. Especially if I'm craving chocolate.
I do dump on too much sugar, unfortunately it has to be a LOT of sugar. I can and have eaten a small bag of m and m's. I avoid the grocery store as much as possible so I am not tempted by the candy aisle and the chip aisle....lol.
I dieted off and on all my life. Dieted myself up to four hundred and fifty pounds. I was miserable. My surgeon told me i'd have to get below four hundred before he'd do the surgery. So I started dieting again. Once I lost enough to get RNY, I felt like I could just keep dieting instead of having surgery. Then my son, who was home from the Navy, said "Mom if you keep dieting you will end up regaining like you always have. Please get the surgery. We want you around as long as possible." That brought tears to my eyes. I called the surgeon the next day and scheduled an appt and got my surgery date.
Best thing I ever did, other than my sons...lol. I'm not a size two and never will be. I am happy with my weight tho. My quality of life is so much better.
Good luck on making your decision.
MOST of us have tried and failed every diet available.... and everyone is afraid of failing WLS. Its most of our history afterall... We tell our friends and family we loose 20, 40, 50 lbs people start to say something and then we go right back up.
This surgery IS a tool. It helps manage hunger, it helps limit how much you can eat and for a while it mal absorbs cals. Here is the tricky part... You have to work the tool. Its not a sure thing... if you test the waters, try that piece of cake, eat that white pasta etc you will fail.... BUT if you follow the rules and do what needs to be done.... YOU have nowhere to go but sucess...
Your family members and loved ones are afraid for you.... it is NORMAL! You need to arm yourself with the facts. Dispell their fears.... Remind them that you have a team of drs, social workers, psychologists, dietitions etc who will work with your before and after your surgery.
I have faith that you will do GREAT!
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