OT XP: Sex appeal...is it something you have or something you do?
This leads me to my question: Do you think that sex appeal is something you have naturally or is it something you try to do? Or do you think it can be some of both?
I'd hate to think I am unknowingly putting out some sort of vibe that is perceived as some sort of come on, least of all in the presence of someone's wife!!
So do tell--what do you think?
Thanks!
Denise
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Start weight: 335 Current weight: 185 Goal weight: Whatever the hell I can maintain without driving myself insane!
To give off a vibe or aura of what you're not aware of or not intending to give off - well, at least you're aware of others' opinions now. It sounds like you really handled the specific situation very well - maybe better than most would have on the spot!
For so long, I was used to not being perceived as sexy, so I wonder if now that the exterior matches the interior, that I might be giving it off on the level of over-kill! Not everyone may feel this way, but if you spend most of your life driving around with a parking break on, you're used to putting the accelerator pedel to the floor (if that makes any sense).
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on 2/8/12 2:34 am - North Brookfield, MA
A male friend of mine told me that once I seemed to be comfortable in my own skin and really did not 'care' what people thought of my appearance anymore that I had an aura about me. Huh???
He said it was like a magnetism kind of thing that men and even some women were drawn to, that he had observed it on many occasions. So it wasn't a conscious thing that I was doing, it just is the way I am now I guess. He jokingly refers to me as catnip when we all go out to a club.
Embrace it lovely lady!
so here are what i think makes any person have sex appeal
1. confidence(also the way you carry your self)
2. friendly at the same level to every one (pretty, ugly, tall, short, fat, or thin)
3.being mysterious
4.not over doing it(talking to loud, laughing to hard, being to over friendly)
5.not showing off(i have an owsome car and a house blah blah blah)
6. caring about family and friends(calling to see how a friend of family is doing just because)
to me this projects sex appeal and i find it sexy in a man you could be the uglyiest man alive but if you have this women are drawn to you...i think it works both ways.. for men and women
if you are this kind of person then youhave sex appeal and people are drawn to you... ever seem shallow hal.. remember the part where the short friend(the one that comes out in the siendfield episodes) tells hal that gwen has the ugly duckling syndrome.. i think you ladies dont see youhave sex appeal because you have felt like the "ugly duckling" for so long thats its hard to see your self as who you really are...( i feel the same way)
this surgery doesnt change us it makes the real us come out.. we are still the same loving nice person as before but now we can do more for ourself and others...
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RNY 2/3/09, LBL/BL w/Augmentation 9/16/11
Start weight: 335 Current weight: 185 Goal weight: Whatever the hell I can maintain without driving myself insane!
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RNY 2/3/09, LBL/BL w/Augmentation 9/16/11
Start weight: 335 Current weight: 185 Goal weight: Whatever the hell I can maintain without driving myself insane!
Other qualities can be considered bu*****pically comes down to T&A.
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Check out my blog--menumealplanning.com. Tales of making meal planning managable, family fodder, and everything else under the sun.
RNY 2/3/09, LBL/BL w/Augmentation 9/16/11
Start weight: 335 Current weight: 185 Goal weight: Whatever the hell I can maintain without driving myself insane!