One of my biggest goals was to weigh the same or less than my skinny husband, and I'm nearly there! I'm at 150 this morning, so I told my husband to weight himself, and he's 149. So close!
That was one of my goals as well. My husband bounces around in the 170's I did it once with my band now trying to do it again with revision... Good luck to you :) It will happen shortly.