How soon did you all get asked out on dates haha

Amanda263
on 8/31/13 3:42 am

Hi just had surgery 8/22 have lost 30 pounds already woo hooo. I am lucky and I'm a pretty big girl so have got attention but today was my first day back to work and have already been getting treated differently. I have always been insecure and self conscious adn have always needed a few drinks before I like interacting mainly with the opposite sex. I'm really hoping this will give me a boost of self esteem. I lost weight previously and felt good but that was when I was younger I'm 32 now and feel like I am more mature now then i was then. I'm not looking to date right now but just curious were most of you already datiing married pre surgery if not was it hard getting into the groove of things?

Member Services
on 8/31/13 4:10 am - Irvine, CA

Congratulations on your success so far! Here are couple of links that you may find helpful, the first is an OH article on dating and the second is a link to threads on this topic where you can hear what other members are saying .