Finally Confessed!!
My hubby and have always shared everything, except one thing, MY WEIGHT! Throughout our 10 yrs of marriage, two children and health issues, I have always made him turn his head when we were at the doctor's office together. I have yet to even let him read my insurance submission letter for BS because it had my weight on there. He has always respected my decision, but I thought in order to have a successful surgery outcome, he must know the truth. I told him on our way home yesterday from a family outting. He wasn't surprised or turned off. He told me he will love me the same no matter what size I am. I felt like a huge burden was lifted from my shoulders. I am so happy to the great husband I do to help me get through this.
sounds like a real life application/example of "the truth shall set you free"
congrats on taking the step!
congrats on taking the step!
Century Club: Thanksgiving Day 25November2010 I am truly grateful
Diabetes, hypercholesterolemia, and GERD resolved along the way.
Onederland: Citizen & permanent resident 17Dec2010
'Normal' BMI range reached 26July2011
18 Month Surgiversary 148# BMI 23 26Nov2011
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Diabetes, hypercholesterolemia, and GERD resolved along the way.
Onederland: Citizen & permanent resident 17Dec2010
'Normal' BMI range reached 26July2011
18 Month Surgiversary 148# BMI 23 26Nov2011
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It is funny how our minds work isn't it? Even though you went tto great lengths to keep him from finding out how much you weigh,he most likely had a pretty good idea already. He,does,after all,have EYES right? He can SEE that you are the size you are.
I am glad you were able to make a clean start with this and glad to know tha your DH,like mine,loves you no matter how much we try to "hide"
GL
I am glad you were able to make a clean start with this and glad to know tha your DH,like mine,loves you no matter how much we try to "hide"
GL
I have to tell you a little story. I am now a normal weight and size and need new bras. Hubby happened to be with me when I went to VS. Other men were in there and I made a comment that he has never bought me anything from there. He said, hun, you've never told me your size so I couldn't. HE IS COMPLETELY right. I would never have told him weight or size. So, it was funny and true.