Question:
Post-op depression is kicking my butt!
— Felissa L. (posted on December 5, 2001)
December 5, 2001
Hey girl, sounds like you are right it is kicking your butt. Check into
your meds, see if they are working for you and what kind of previous
depression you had. Are you bi-polar, ptsd, there are many other things
out there or are you just plain depressed. Definately talk to your Dr.
about your meds and symptoms. I was fine on prozac for 4 years till I
attempted suicide on it, they immediately switched my meds needless to say.
I have been on zoloft, and wellbutrin and they have a time span of when
they wear off for some people but not all. It also will take up to 6 weeks
for your wellbutrin to take full affect since they upped it again. I
definately have felt like a pain in the butt, why aren't any medicines
working for me. We sound similar in that aspect. If you need someone to
talk to I would be happy to correspond with you, and if you think this post
isn't worth the time of day I am ok with that too. :o) Just be careful, I
have been there all too many times. ~Angel~ pre-op
— angel_wls
December 5, 2001
Hello dear Felissa,<br>
I've struggled with depression quite a bit too and I can't tell you what to
do but I can tell you what I usually do when I'm in such a state... I call
one of my best girlfriends and ask her for help. Last time, I said,
"You know how last time I screwed up my credit by not paying any
of my bills? Can you help me pay my bills on time this time?"
(money was not the issue, opening the mail and then writing checks was)...
She came over twice a week, opened all my mail with me, sat me down with my
checkbook, and dictated what to do on each check. No joke. But I didn't
wreck my credit AGAIN. She also made sure that I was eating properly by
cooking me food, helped me with other small tasks, and generally kept tabs
on me until my meds kicked in and the fog lifted a bit. I've done return
favors for her... petsitting, errands, etc. Your best girlfriends will be
glad to help you like this even if it seems a little weird to them at
first. <p>Exercise also helps me a LOT these days especially now that
I'm down 68 lbs and not completely dying every time I do it. In the morning
is better for your mood than at night.<p>Hang in there and feel free
to email me. We've both been in this boat and I'd love to help you get
through this tough time.
— Julia M.
December 5, 2001
First, of all, hang in there! I know how crushing depression can be. But,
you already know what you are dealing with, AND you have medical help. That
is half the battle. Good girl! Remember, the anesthesia can add to the
whole depression thing. And, as you probably know, sometimes we need to
change meds, who knows why, but it happens. Try the exercise, , and,
weather permitting, try to make it a bit of outdoor walking in the
sunshine. Part of this equation is also the overall tiredness that comes
with the surgery. Remember, one small step at a time. Keep in touch with
the doc, and don't wait to call for help it it gets really, really dark. My
guess is that this is just taking a little longer for you to kick, and you
will make it one small step at a time. Best Wishes, and take care of
yourself. Email if you need a shoulder to cry on, okay?
— Michelle P.
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